Good comes from doing small empathetic stuff

Compassion is what we all tend to find whole of our lives. The search somehow seems long or unyielding maybe because we forget that not always good or great has a big price tag, not always greatness comes with doing out of the world. Trivial things or deeds that are insignificant can make a difference all the way too.

Smile, Hug, word of Thank you/ sorry/ please are some to start with. Won’t go in to details what are actually the small deeds that one can adopt.  Compassion in life is like a heart with no bad performance. And of course no one can function proper with an ill heart. Everyone can look for ways to be able to make a difference in lives of people around because that’s the simplest and most yielding way of having positivity in your own life.

Mornings are best as well as tough time to start ones day with. On my way to work usually had a practice that I seriously don’t remember how I started. But on my way from home to work while seeing around I use to look for some positivity. Some Positive energy to start my day with, and last me with goodness till day’s end. A school van with kids playing, laughing reminding you of carefree days, once I saw newly born kittens near the drive way and that was a beautiful sight, rain and rainbow was another morning I experienced while on way to work, a kid holding hand of his father while they stop at a nearby halwa puri hawker, the snake guy with his snake basket and extra vibrant and stylish bag (yes! It can be inspiring for Khaadi or generation’s bag loving peopleJ ).good music  or sometimes a good talk on TV before I left for work which of course was a rarity considering the special standard of our morning shows :P

Of course, there were many times when practicing this habit of mine I saw a thing that disturbed me. The cart owner hitting the donkey hard, or loading extra over the cart. The litter around and much more there is that disturbs us all Pakistanis every morning and evening when we go out and often leave us pondering if this States going to survive.

But the bottom line still remains, when there is so much negativity around that it’s affecting you directly or indirectly and without your consent generate and invent ways to remain positive. Once you find a way to be positive pass that on. Don’t keep it. It will increase once you pass on. You always send positive vibes when entering office or home with a bright smile and asking others how you doing. This is a very small activity but believe you me it works wonders. The other person might be having a bad day so stopping at ones cabin and asking how’s the day going or getting them a mug of coffee, asking your family member how was the day and setting dinner table with already tired home staying partner/mother will send out the message that their efforts don’t go unnoticed and are appreciated. Lending a small hand or praising their effort always encourages one. Your small gestures will create results you think insignificant. GO ON SPREAD THE POSITIVE!!!